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Parenting > Understanding Your Child

Understanding the unique nature of a child helps a parent explain many behaviors, whether it be for a certain age or stage of development, for a certain temperament style, maturity level, or the other areas that make each child unique. By understanding and becoming aware of who a child is (nature) and what environmental factors and personal relationships have influenced the child (nurture), a parent can be better equipped to handle the many challenges he or she will face.

Each relationship a child experiences from birth affects and influences who that child is (and becomes) and the core beliefs that may stay with the child for life. In his book, The Neuroscience of Human Relationships, Dr. Louis Cozolino discusses attachment and the affect emotionally intimate relationships have on the developing social brain in children. It's important for parents to be aware that as children grow-up, the relationships around them affect how they will react to and handle (process) all sorts of various situations.

Also, it's helpful for parents to be aware that its the nature of all children to lack judgement, be impulsive, and be egocentric. As part of the responsibilities of parenting, teaching a child better judgement, to be less impulsive, and to be less egocentric (more empathetic to others and realizing the impact of his or her actions on others) will help nurture an emotionally and relationally healthier person.

Parents that feel challenged to truly understand their child can be empowered to become more aware of the nature of their child, and it's never too late. One-on-one guidance is available. To find out how to begin your journey to better understand your child, please contact us.